Personal Note

Hey I just wanted to give everyone an update on what's going on with our adoption. We finally got "The Call" and we are leaving on Friday for Vietnam to go pick up our new son!
Please keep us in your prayers. We will be taking Ellie our 4 year old daughter and Evan will be staying with his Grandma. (She needs a lot of prayer!)

We'll be updating my wife's blog while we're in Vietnam. It's at mistyandtyler.blogspot.com

God bless,

Parson Larson

Beautiful Living: Older Men Part 3

Good morning (yes, I realize that it may not be morning where you are right now as you read this, but it's always morning somewhere). Update on things going on here before we get back to Titus. Awana has been going really well. We've gained a couple of kids, but at this point I'm not sure how regular they will be, and potentially lost one of my T&T girls due to a family situation. Please continue to keep these children in your prayers. We want to make sure these children know our Savior and as they study the Word of God will be living it out in their lives. Remember to check out my wife's blog for information on the adoption. The link is to the right.

Ok, now back to Titus. We're discussing the qualities that the older men in the church are to have. The next is that they are to be "self-controlled".

The opposite of self-controlled is to be "other-controlled". This is something that we need to be cautious about. What is it that controls you? There are many things that can cause you to lose your self-control. Alcohol is the first thing that I think of. It's common knowledge that drinking too much can lead to loss of control. I've been to wedding receptions where the booze has flown freely. Everyone had fun, even those who didn't drink, yet those who had been drinking were doing things that they never would do without the influence of alcohol. Self-controlled, they were not.

How about anger? I know people who become very angry. They lose control. When this happens, it is a scary thing because you don't know what's going to happen. If you look into their eyes, you don't see them, it's almost like looking into the eyes of an animal. Something that should definitely be avoided.

Being self-controlled is also one of the requirements for the leaders of the church in Titus 1:8. They should be self-controlled, or temperate in their desires. The question that this all comes down to is simply, "do your desires control you and force you to live in order to fulfill those desires?" Unfortunately, the desires that tend to control you are the desires that are sinful. What should happen, is that your desires change to become God's desires. Psalm 37:4 deals with this. “Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
This does not mean that God will simply give you whatever you want. This is really dealing with your heart. When your delight is in the Lord, you delight in what He delights in. You desire what He desires. When your hearts desire is for God's hearts desire, then you will get the desires of your heart.

So, do your desires control you, or do you allow God's desires to lead you?

Beautiful Day

Have you ever woken up in a really good mood? I'm like that today. I had a good breakfast, the kids are playing happily, it's a beautiful day, Misty's having a good day, and I just finished one of the best cups of coffee I've had since I finished working at Jax, a coffee shop in Scottsbluff, NE.

Something I've noticed about coffee is that once you have had really good coffee, you become spoiled. You've had what is excellent and anything less becomes a disappointment. Earlier this summer I flew up to Michigan for the wedding of a friend. In one of the airports I stopped by a rather well known coffee place. (You know the one.) I have a particular affinity for a dry cappuccino. What this is for those who are not as well versed in coffee lingo is a cup of thick foam (preferably thick enough to hold a spoon upright in the glass) with a good espresso poured down the middle. I ordered a very dry cappuccino at this place and became extremely disappointed when I received a drink with no foam at all, just milk that had been steamed to a temperature that ruined the flavor of the drink.

Now, believe it or not, I do have a point to this post beyond showing that I'm what some call a "coffee snob". Those of us who have tasted of the grace of God have experienced what is greater than anything this world can offer. What seemed to be wonderful to us before, now tastes ruined at best; or at worst, like a second rate knock-off. All of the pleasures that this world can offer may be fun and enjoyable for a moment, but we know that it doesn't last and doesn't compare to what we have received in Christ Jesus.

If you have questions about this grace, leave me a comment with your e-mail address. I won't post it for all to see, but I will write you back explaining what this grace is and how to receive it.

God bless

Awana

Please keep us in your prayers. Tonight is our first night of Awana and my first night of being an Awana commander. I am so thankful for my wife who has pretty much gotten this whole thing organized single-handedly. She's excited about her Cubbies group and I'll be taking care of games, T&T (Truth & Training, the 3rd-6th grades), large group time, and whatever else needs to be done.

Our prayers are that we will have a lot of kids, that the Gospel will be presented clearly in a way that they can understand, and that the parents will be affected by the work of God in the lives of their children. We really desire this to be an outreach to the families in the area.

God bless!

UPDATE: After our first night has been completed... I believe this night was a success. We had a pretty good group of kids (25-30, not quite sure yet on the exact number) and it just went really well. We were able to have a lot of fun and the kids were able to learn about God's Word. It was great. Thanks for your prayers!

Things that make you go, ugh...

Hey everyone, things are pretty crazy here in the Larson home. 3 out of 4 of us are sick, leaving only sweet little 3 almost 4 year old Ellie to take care of the rest of us. (Ok, not really, but Misty, Evan, and I are quite miserable today.

Be praying for us, the adoption process may speed up for us here. There are two families traveling to Vietnam in about a week that were either behind us in their schedule or dead even with us. Read Misty's blog for more information on that.

Also, Awana is going to be starting here next Wednesday (the 19th) and we were supposed to have our basic training on Saturday. Unfortunately, the guy who is doing the training is delayed on a work trip to Texas and won't be back in time. We are going to delay the training, but still have our kick-off parents night on schedule.

We've also finished up the book of Titus in Church a couple of weeks ago and are beginning to go through John. I think I'll wait to do Hebrews 11 until later. I'll still update with notes from Titus as we go along here though.

God bless,
Parson Larson

Beautiful Living: Older Men Part 2

As we continue in this study of "Beautiful Living" we see that the next characteristic the older men are to have is that they should be worthy of respect. The King James Version words this as "grave", but in today's wording "grave" just doesn't quite have the same meaning that it should. Remember this is written from the perspective of a 26 year old. The Greek word is "semnos" which could be translated as honorable.

Paul is saying here that the older men should live lives that are honorable, or as the NIV puts it, "worthy of respect".

This is something that all of us, not just the older men although they are the focus of this particular verse, should strive for in our lives. As we age there is more reason for respect. There is a lifetime of experience that gives wisdom. (As long as you learn from your experience.) It's very sad that in our society the elderly have become ridiculed rather than respected. Younger people often have little to no respect for their elders, including me at my rather ripe old age of 26. (Just kidding... sort of.) That lack of respect causes them to miss out on so many of the lessons and relationships that are just waiting to be taken advantage of.

The challenge is this: are you living a life that is honorable? Is your life worthy of respect? We should live our lives in such a way that causes others to respect us. Make good decisions, use your experience to teach others, and avoid the troubles that you know are out there.

I think of many men in my past that I can say have lived honorable lives. These men have been used by God to change who I am from who I could have been. For that, I am grateful.

The Boss!

Just a quick thought from our Village Missions conference this last week. It was a great time of encouragement and refreshing. It is truly one of the best things that Village Missions can do to help the churches they serve. If their pastor is discouraged and worn out, he won't do any good where he serves. Thank you, Village Missions!

Brian Wechsler, the director of Village Missions, was there and gave me a bit of a panic. He said, "I've been reading your blog." My response, "Oh, uh..." My thoughts, "What have I been writing? Am I in trouble? What now? What do I say? Uhhh..." :-) Well, sir, I hope you enjoy what I write. Thanks for your message this past Thursday night. It was an encouragement to me.

God bless,
Parson Larson

Beautiful Living: Older Men -Part 1

The first group Paul focuses on in this passage is the older men. He commands them first of all to be temperate. What does this mean? Two different meanings came up as I studied this, moderation and vigilance.



Moderation:

This would be the idea of keeping things in balance in your life and not allowing yourself to do something excessively. Too much of even a good thing can be bad. So, we see that we must be moderate. This includes food, drink, and other activities, or even mindsets.



Far too often we go to extremes and don't have balance in our lives. I like video games... a lot. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but when it becomes the only thing I think about during the day, then there is trouble and the rest of my life starts to suffer. The key is to be moderate and keep it in balance.

Vigilance:

Combines the thoughts of being watchful and endurance. One dictionary describes this as "being sleeplessly watchful". I like this because of a sense of protection from older Christian men. This is important because of the life experiences that these men have. They have experienced many of the things that those who are younger (including myself and my mere 26 years of experience) are going through now.

These are two things that we all should strive for in our lives, moderation and vigilance.


Keep reading Titus, and I'll be back later with some more thoughts. Please leave comments and let me know your thoughts!

Beautiful Living: Old Men

When I was growing up, my parents had two pictures hanging up in the kitchen. To me, these are great examples of, as my last post described, beautiful living. In one picture, there is an old man with a gray beard praying over a table of food. In the other, an older woman who is apparently the wife of the man, praying over her meal. A brief glimpse into the lives of these two individuals... In my own mind I imagine their lives. I can see both joy and pain, hope and sorrow, laughter and tears. The gnarled hands of the old man show the work he has done his entire life. At this meal you see their priorities and their love. In prayer they show their thankfulness to the Creator for the blessings He has provided. There is love, gentleness and hope in their lives. Truly, beautiful lives.

In the next posts I will discuss what Paul commanded Titus to tell the people of Crete, specifically the older men and women.

For those who interested in reading ahead, read Titus 2:1-10.

Thoughts, Ponderings, and Ideas... (almost sounds deep, huh?)

I wanted to give an update on what we've been doing in church for the past few weeks. As I've posted previously, we're studying through the book of Titus. As I was studying for a sermon on the first part of chapter 2, I came across something at the end of verse 10 that really stuck in my mind. Up to this point Paul is telling Titus about how the people of Crete should be living. Then at the end of verse 10, right after talking about the lives of servants and slaves he says, "so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive."

This phrase really got me to thinking about one of the reasons we should be living out the commands given to us in the Bible. Our lives are testimony to the world about Christ. The way we live should make the teaching about God our Savior attractive to the world.

Can we say this about our own lives? Do our lives cause unbelievers to say, "I want a life like that. What makes them different?" My father-in-law recently had an experience like this while stationed in Kyrgyzstan. Some soldiers noticed the difference between his life and the life of another person who does not live a Christian life. These soldiers have now been asking my father-in-law about Christ and His grace.

The question we should be asking ourselves then, is this, "Am I living an attractive life?" The way I have posed this question at church the past two sermons has been, "Is your life beautiful?" So... is it?

More to come on this topic later.
God bless,
Parson Larson

Long time, no writing...

Sorry about not updating this blog more often! Things are going really well here in KS and as an excuse about why I haven't written read this: http://mistyandtyler.blogspot.com/2007/05/our-son.html

We've been a little busy with the adoption, with Ellie and Evan, with weddings (1 down, 2 to go), and just life. However, I should update more. We'll see if I can stick with it. :-)

As far as church is going, we've had ups and downs. We recently had a couple resign from their positions on the board. We kind of saw this one coming, but were doing what we could to avoid that. However, all things are in God's hands, we just may not like them.

For ups, well... we have started a new sermon series in the book of Titus which is a really interesting study. I'm getting a lot out of it. The frustrating thing is that only about 75% of what I end up studying gets into my sermon. I'd be preaching 2+ hour sermons if I put it all in there.

We also are starting an AWANA program. Village Missions and AWANA are starting a pilot program to get rural churches active in youth ministries and Misty and I will be heading to Chicago in August for a conference on this. I must admit that I'm excited about the flight more than the conference at this point, but that's mainly because Misty and I haven't had the chance to fly together yet. She also has relatives near Chicago, so we might try and get together with them for supper some night if we have the time.

Please continue to pray for us and for the church as we continue in our ministry here. There have been several health problems among people in the church (all of them are doing fine now), for the couple that has resigned their positions, and for the AWANA program. We need to have enough leaders for all of the kids in the area that are likely to come!

God bless,
Tyler

Life In General

Hey, people do read... and comment. Well, at least three of you.

Ok, enough of my more than slightly odd sense of humor for the day. (Thanks to Rob Jordon for the pic.) We are home from Michigan as of 9:00 last night. After that I'm home for a month, then I'm back to Michigan for another friends wedding. Home for a month, and then we're off to Colorado for our Village Missions conference! A month after that, we are going to a conference in Chicago with Village Missions and Awana. (Which is right after a likely trip to Nebraska for the wedding of another friend.)

Wow. I'm out of breath from just typing this... Ok, not really.

We have finished Judges here in Kansas. Off to the wonderful book of Titus, and then after that we'll do a series through Hebrews 11's "Hall of Faith". We're continuing to work on our doctrine study on Sunday nights, and after that... I'm not sure. I have a couple of ideas that I'm thinking about doing, but I'm unsure as to what we will do.

Thank you to all of our friends and family who are supporting us as we work in rural (very rural) Kansas. We love it here and are excited to see what God is doing. Look for a prayer letter coming to a mailbox near you soon!

God bless,

Parson Larson (this name is even engraved on a pocketwatch now. Thanks, Phil and Jen. Congrats!)

So, um is anybody there???

You know, I think I'd post a little more often if I would get some comments. *hint-hint*

This Sunday marks the end of our series through the book of Judges. Hmm, now what next? 2nd Hezekiah? 1st Opinions? Hmm, oh the options. :-)

It's amazing as I study these last three chapters how the people responded to sin. It seems that they didn't even realize it was a sin. However, it hadn't been that long since Moses had been given the Law, so they should have known. Unfortunately, the parents weren't doing a very good job at teaching their children about the wonders of God.

How about us? For the parents that are reading this, are we teaching our children about who God is and what He has done? All it takes is the failure of one generation to cause the fall of a nation. If you read Judges, notice how quickly they fell. They enter the Promised Land with Joshua and things are going well. He dies, his assistants die, and the nation falls into idolatry. It's too easy to try to rely on another person to teach our children, but how can we be loving parents if we are not teaching them what is eternally important. Instead, we focus on the temporary and make idols out of it.

Our society reminds me of the last part of the final verse in Judges. "In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit." Everyone did as he saw fit. No regard for what was right. How we feel right now does not make something right or wrong.

We can't let this happen to us today.

-Parson Larson

Wow... Been Awhile

Hey all!

Yeah, I realize I haven't posted since February. Sorry. However, I don't make guarantees as to when I will post. Hope you've realized this by now. Getting close to wrapping up the book of Judges soon. Of course, when you go through all 4 chapters that deal with Samson's life in one sermon you can go through a whole book rather quickly as well. *Note, I do NOT usually go that quickly through chapters. It's a rare occasion that worked well with the message.*

For those of you MySpace fans out there, I have joined you. I'm at www.myspace.com/qrossphyre

Well, that's about it for now. If you have questions please leave me a comment and I will see if I can answer you.

God bless,
Parson Larson

Life...

Greetings! Things have been going well for us here in Kansas these past few weeks. We had our Valentine's banquet on Saturday with another church in the area. It went extremely well. There were quite a few in attendance with an interesting devotional on love, our love for Christ, and how we show our love to Him. Along with some specials, wonderful food, and games we had an incredible evening.

Judges has been a lot of fun for me lately. I'm enjoying doing a slightly different type of sermon lately. This week we'll be in chapter 6 with Gideon. I'm excited about this one! Great application on trusting God!

The adoption process continues to move on, but you'll have to check out Misty's blog for that one, the link is on the right.

God bless!

Getting to Know You...

Getting to Know You, Getting to Know All About You... or however the song goes. This should be our attitude about our relationship with Christ. Getting to know Him, should be our goal. Is He real in your life, or are you just a Sunday Christian? Just some thoughts that have been rambling in my head for a few days.

Things are going well here in Kansas. We finally had lunch with the family we have been trying to get together with for MONTHS!!! I believe our first attempt to get together was in September of '06. Finally, in January... We had a lot of fun and look forward to more times with them in the future. At this rate that will be in late May. We'll be looking forward to it.

We have a video camera that will make it easy to upload videos to the computer. In time I may put it on the blog if I can figure out how to do that with Blogger. Hmm, I have an idea... Oh well, I will experiment later.

Pray for me as I prepare a series through Judges. I haven't done a series through any historical books or through a narrative rather than a letter such as the epistles.

God bless,
Tyler

The New Year

Hey Everyone!

I trust that 2007 (yeah, just like everyone else I started off writing '06) is treating you well so far. We are doing quite well so far this year.

As an update on my computer problems, my hard drive did finally bite the dust just before Christmas. I have a new one installed and pretty much everything is up and running. I need to find a few drivers online and then I'll be back up to normal.

Our Christmas programs were incredible! Our Sunday School program was probably the best I had seen. The Gospel was very clearly portrayed with the question "Do You Believe?" being prominent throughout. It was followed by a cookie fellowship time. I had a chance to meet many new people, but when you have an additional 33% in the church that is to be expected. The next week was our Candlelight Service. Again, it went very well with the opportunity to meet new people.

We then drove through the night to my parents house in order to surprise my Mom on Christmas morning. That was a LOT of fun!

New Years was a lot of fun with Misty's family visiting us. I'm one of those fortunate enough to have wonderful in-laws (Doug and Peggy, if you're reading this you better comment!)

That pretty much brings us up to the present. I'll be finishing up my series in Galatians this week with a sermon addressing the question "What Really Matters?" For Paul, it didn't matter what others thought about him. He said that the world was dead to him, but not only that, he was dead to the world. As far as they were concerned Paul was dead. They didn't care for him at all. They just needed a body to complete the thought. Hmm, interesting. Does the world matter to you?

God bless,
Parson Larson